Are you the winner or the looser when you loose your temper?

Do you raise your voice when your child argues with you?
Do you loose your temper when your child don't do as you want him to?

If you do.... you are the looser..WHY?

Because...

i. Your child learns his behavior by observing you. If you loose our temper each time your child argues with you or don't do as you want him to, he will think that is the correct way to behave.

ii. Worst still, if you loose your temper and be aggressive.. It may be scary for the child.

iii. It may also indicate that its ok to loose control and be aggressive.

iv. The child may end up in tears, stop arguing and reluctant do what you want him to...but in the long run you are still the looser.

Trying to bring up a perfect child? Think again!

If you are trying to bring up a perfect child, think again, because childhood is for being a child:

i. You will put them under unfair pressure.
ii. Every child that behaves so flawlessly, never put a wrong foot forward, strive to please their parents and their teachers, work hard in school and always handed in their homework in time are the most boring characterless little child that we can imagine!
iii. Studies have shown that children who have the biggest and warmest personalities all had:
      a. an overly mischievous tendency.
      b. a temper or two when provoked.
      c. a sense of humor that sometimes when too far.
      d. a lazy streak at times.
iii. Children are not supposed to be mini adults, they come with their little imperfection.